Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Holiness is Intimate not Pure


The following prayers come were created by me as the liturgist for September 2, 2012 at my home church of Wellington Ave. United Church of Christ. I chose to focus my Call to Confession on the lectionary texts for the Sunday: Song of Solomon 2:8-13 and Mark 7:1-8, 14-15,21-23. As is the tradition in my church the liturgist leads the first half of the service which includes The Call to Confession, Unison Prayer of Confession, and Words of Assurance. If it is a Communion Sunday then the liturgist will also preside at the table. I wrote an Invitation to the table based on the themes covered in the Confession and the texts of the day and the theme of gathering that Rev. Mousin used in his preaching about labor and Labor Day.  



Call to Confession
I love this morning’s Hebrew texts especially this joyous poem from the Song of Songs. Whether you believe it is about God’s love for Israel as Jewish scholars have taught or God’s love for the church as Christians have taught or a mystical snapshot on romantic and sensual love, it is all about how holiness is intimate, beautiful, and invitational. It’s about what God’s love can teach us about human love, or what human love can teach us about God’s love.
And maybe because of this, early church father Origen advises against us talking about these texts too much, “I advise and counsel everyone who is not yet rid of vexations of the flesh and blood, and has not ceased to feel the passions of this bodily nature to refrain from reading the book and the things that will be said about it.”
Is love only for those who would describe themselves as “rid of vexations of the flesh and blood” or has “ceased to feel passions” of a “bodily nature?”  There seems to me to be a huge fear of the body here and a fear of the erotic in general, such that even talking about it might… might what?  Might make us want to do things we shouldn’t?  Might suggest we have an embodied faith?  that we are called to love our Lord our God with all our heart, mind, soul, and body.
So this lovely springtime love lyric comes along in our lectionary at the end of summer, accompanying a New Testament text about purity laws and defilement.  It comes after the feeding stories where real people are literally fed.
This text also comes after weeks of attacks on women and their bodies. It has been so bad that some have called it a War on Women.
            It has been so intense and crazy that women have even been called sluts for simply wanting birth control. One was even asked to leave the legislative assembly for saying Vagina in public. And how some, mostly white men, have suggested that there is a difference between legitimate and illegitimate rape and that you can’t get pregnant from rape because the body knows how to shut down to prevent this from taking place.
This combination of fear and ignorance of the human reproductive system and sexuality is truly frightening and deserves our faithful attention as much as the other social, economic, and political issues we work on here at Wellington.  The repercussions of this war are lethal--- real women are being denied healthcare and real women are having unwanted pregnancies due to rape.
But this fear of women and their bodies is also about fear of Women’s power, just follow what is happening to our Catholic sisters who are being asked to pull back on their social justice work and focus more on abortion issues or else… Their orders are on censored lockdown with a few brave souls speaking out.
And this fear is not limited to women, this fear of bodies and the erotic, it’s an ongoing denial of rights for our GLBT sisters and brothers, denying them healthcare, marriage, even leadership roles in our faith communities. Sexual orientation and identity are even side-lined in our comprehensive sexual health programs and as NBC in Utah has just shown not appropriate for their viewing audience when they censored “The New Normal” a new TV show about two gay men starting a family.  
Perhaps Origen was right we are not ready to read these texts but not because we are not finished with exploring our erotic passions but because we don’t even know where or how to begin, how to integrate our bodies into our faith, our lives.
And so I turn to the Song of Songs, to Jesus’ healing stories about touching lepers and “unclean women” for some relief, some perspective. And then there comes this lectionary text about purity and impurity, a toe to toe with the Pharisees about washing your hands of all things. Jesus manages to make washing your hands secondary to the issues of clean hearts and actions. He uses this confrontation to once again remind us that it is not what goes into the body that is too be feared but what comes out.
“Then he called the crowd and said to them, “Listen to me, all of you, and understand: there is nothing outside a person that by going in can defile, but the things that come out are what defile” or as the Message translation puts it, “It’s not what you swallow that pollutes your life; it’s what you vomit---that’s the real pollution.”
For it is from within, from the human heart that evil intentions come
“It’s what comes out of a person that pollutes.”
 “All evil comes from within, and they defile a person,” ---“there is the source of pollution.”
Defilement or pollution comes from within. It includes actions like murder and theft, adultery and greed, slander and obscenities, arrogance and foolishness. All of these come from within.
So to finish this morning, I invite you this week to meditate  or pray on the ways you have defiled yourself or others or when you yourself have felt defiled. 
As you do this remember to breathe. You might use your outbreath as a breath of letting go, letting God.  
In addition, when you see or hear about others defiling others, stand up, speak out. Your silence makes you complicit. As the late Howard Zinn said, “You cant’ be neutral on a moving train.”
Join me now in our Prayer of Confession as we collectively bring forward to God the ways we as a community have missed the mark, polluted our environment, not responded yet to God’s invitation.
  
Unison Prayer of Confession
Beloved, you invite us to love you with our whole selves---playful, sensual, fun, and romantic.  You invite us to encounter the world, not escape from it, to become intoxicated with the fragrance of the fruits of your creation. You invite us into a heavenly and earthly intimacy. Beloved, you invite us to love each other with our whole selves—dirty hands and all, to walk the talk, to speak to our shadow sides, to let go of self judgments that declare us “defiled”, or project onto others our sense of impurity.  You invite us into a relationship where the actions of our hearts are stronger than the laws we have created to worship you. Your holiness is based on wholeness not purity.  We confess that without your embodied desire for us to arise and meet you, we would most likely stay put in our prisons of shame and set up border patrols against all those we have decided are “other” or unworthy.  Forgive us these trespasses and those who trespass against us.  Help us to know and live the truth that we are deeply loved, imperfect and flawed as we are.  Beloved, pour your grace upon us this morning, anoint us to sing your songs of love and justice. Amen.

Words of Assurance
Arise dear ones, our Beloved calls each one of us into the dance of life to enjoy the fruits of creation. Intimacy, sexuality, leaping and bounding around like gazelles are all permissible.  Eating with dirty hands with common folk are also permissible for what God demands of us is not purity but faithfulness between our heart and our actions.  Our bodies are temples but they are also instruments of love.

And when we are not in alignment, when we are polluting the world with our defiling actions towards ourselves, others and creation, God’s love is still there---wide enough to forgive us if we are willing to name these transgressions and truly seek help or repentance. For God’s love is like a GPS device which seeks to keep us on the path, no matter how many wrong turns we make. God does not punish us, but seeks to correct our mistakes by recalculating the route.  Finally, God wants our partnership, loves us like a lover, wants union with us like a marriage. These are our assurances. 

Reflection Before Invitation
We cannot love God unless we love each other,
and to love we must know each other.
We know God in the breaking of bread,
and we know each other in the sharing of bread,
and we know we are not alone any more.
Heaven is a banquet, too, even with a crust,
where there is companionship.
Dorothy Day, in The Long Loneliness

Invitation to The Table 
As bread that was scattered on the hillside,
was gathered together and made one,
so too, we, your people,
scattered throughout the world,
are gathered together around your table
and become one.

As grapes grown in the field
are gathered together and pressed into wine,
so too are we drawn together
and pressed by our times to share a common lot
and are transformed into your life-blood
for all.

So let us prepare to eat and drink
as Jesus taught us with hands cleaned or not.
Let us invite the stranger, the outcast, the “defiled”, the worker, the immigrant, the gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgendered
 to our table----all are welcome.  There are no guest lists.
May those who are absent from this table serve to remind us
of the divisions this Eucharist seeks to heal.
May their presence help transform us
into the whole body of Christ we share.

* Invitation Prayer was adapted from a Prayer attributed to the Iona Community 






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